When i was a child i couldn't wait to grow up and now i'm grown i can't stop wishing for my childhood days when i didn't have any worries. Don't get it twisted am so glad i'm an adult now but some days are so challenging that Ijust feel like
 I need a break from life and all the worries it has to offer!

If someone had told me i would be blogging, trying to save up to buy a sewing machine, own a headband line ( please buy from me @kinkwares ), a head full of kinky curls and looking forward to opening my own atelier i would have laughed so hard and told the person "sorry you've got the wrong girl" but here i am trying to do all these whilst strutting for happiness.
Life happens and sometimes we don't always grow into the woman we day dreamed about and this at times make us sad. Its not like i have ever been that girl that wanted to be a doctor or a chef or a musician???... At some point i wanted to be a nurse but snapped out of that dream the moment i dissected an animal in my senior secondary school. 
I found myself in love with plants the first time i sat for a departmental lecture and i still do but i wanted something more interesting, a spark, something more than plants and fungi then i found sewing. Its been wonderful being a student in class talking about gene effects on traits of plants and coming over to the blogs to talk about sewing and put up a tutorial or two for you my lovelies. 
Life in your twenties is full of uncertainties, fear of the unknown , confusion, tears, happiness, rebuilding of inner strength and pride, returning to the grains of ethics that identified you as a person of your own and not that girl on the gram you are trying to be.
Life in your twenties is full of adventures, absolute reflection of the inner beauty, metamorphosis of the new you because even you can't believe how broaden your horizon has become. You might second guess yourself at some point when you have decided to follow a path and something in you needs to a break from all the ideas running through your mind. Somedays are so interesting especially when you have just started something new you think would work and some days are so dark cause you feel like you aren't doing anything right. 
Most of the times we in this phase are misunderstood, we tend to withdraw from others and find solace in the ideas written in our diaries and God whom we cry out to early hours of the morning waiting for when he would hear the whispers of our heart and answers us.
Life in your twenties is not a time to quiver and give up NO! its a time to be strong and face your fears in the face damning the consequences for if you give up in the days of trouble your strength is small. Its a time to give your dreams the best of your strength, be your number one cheer leader, take all the risk and if it eventually  fails you would be happy that you even dared to dream!

Life is  a sewing project sometimes a style turns out well and other times it doesn't. Sometimes you even have to cut out a piece of fabric and replace it with another pattern of fabric to bring out the style with the outmost intention that every sewing project that has a beginning has an end, it must be completed  and no dress is meant to be left unfinished. 
This my dearies has been my comfort for the days life doesn't seem so interesting and all i want to do is give up but as you know by now its not even an option! 

Tell me how life has been at your end or how you navigated through the confusion of  THE TWENTIES.

Lots of Love and Sunshine,



  1. Same feeling, when I was a child I dreamt to be 18, I got to 18 and then 20 and it keeps on going, now, some things I wish I could be 15 or 16 again.... I love being an adult but seriously not all the time �� lok

    1. Yes sometimes being an adult is not always easy because you are responsible for all your decisions and actions.


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